Ephesians
overview and principles

 

Introduction

The Biblical book of Ephesians is one of Paul's letters written to the new believers living in the town Ephesus.  Paul wrote this while he was imprisoned and had the time to consider the Ephesians struggles and write them a letter of encouragement.

The Gentiles (non Jewish people) living in Ephesus felt like they were the lower-class believers because they were treated as such by the Jewish Christians.  A cloud of judgment and misunderstanding hindered them from chasing God and being the people they were meant to be. 

This letter encourages through 3 different topics:

    -The calling of a believer (chapters 1-3)
    -The conduct of a believer (chapter 4-6 verse 9)
    -The conflict of a believer (chapter 6 verse 10 through the end of the letter)

I'll try to simplify what Paul is saying and pull what we can get out of the letter to Ephesus as we go through each chapter.

 

Topic One:  The Calling of a Believer
   
   
In three chapters, Paul walks us through the blessings of Christ taking us out of darkness and lifting us into His own family.


    Chapter 1:  4 Spiritual Blessings

It's important to know what we have as followers of Christ.  Paul spends the opening of his letter to explain things that we as Christ's followers can have.  These are things which the rest of the world cannot claim.  If you read through the chapter, depending on the translation you're reading, you'll find a phrase similar to "according to".  These links show us what blessing we are associated with as Christ's own.

        verse 4-6- We have been adopted
            God has chosen not only the Jews, but all people to become His people.  Through Christ we are adopted into His family and this has always been His plan for us.  Nobody of any race or status can limit God's family, since we're all either Jew or non-Jew. 
 

        verse 7-8- We have been forgiven
            Christ's blood shed for us so we can be redeemed.  There's no other sacrifice that needs to be made to pay for our trespasses.
 

        verse 9-10- We can know the mystery of His will.
            We may not have in our view every answer to the equation, but we can now see the answer to God's overall process through mankind.  Paul spends more time on this in Chapter 3.
 

        verse 11-14- We have an inheritance
            This inheritance is a part of God who works in us according to God's will.  The inheritance is the Holy Spirit, who comes after we hear the gospel and believe.  The Holy Spirit also acts as a proof of pledge, to ourselves, that we are God's. 
 

        verse 15-17- a personal note, that Paul is both praying for their belief in the Lord and thankful for it happening to the Ephesians.
 

        verse 18-19- This section sets the tone of the whole letter.  Paul lays out what he is praying for as he continues offering it to the Ephesians.  He wants them to know...
            -the hope of His calling (the calling of a believer)
            -the riches of His inheritance (the conduct of a believer, linked to the Holy Spirit)
            -the greatness of His power (the conflict of a believer and the corresponding solution)
 

        verse 20-23-  Paul makes clear the source of all the things he's writing about: Christ died and was raised from the dead to take control of eternity.
 

 

    Chapter 2:  Illustrations of Belonging

Paul simply gives two parables to illustrate to his readers, first the change done in us, and second, how that change applies to our relationships with others.  We see the association and depth of what our calling as a believer means.

        verse 1-10- Dead vs. Alive
           
God sees those who are lost and separate from Him as dead.  We were like mindless zombies, bound to a set of evil cravings and needs.  Our natural state is one of disobedience and being destined to receive the wrath of God as ones under control of God's enemy.  The dead can't experience spiritual life and are stuck on a lie of mortal reality.  God has compassion and sent a sacrifice of grace to bring us to Him and His truth of reality
          A side note to that, we are a result of God's work, not our own.  No self-righteous follower can claim being a result of their own deeds or heritage.
 

        verse 11-22- Adoption
           
Because we became alive, we see how that change relates us to others.  All non-Jews were separated from God and there was nothing we could do about it. 
            We were outsiders without hope.  Christ's sacrifice has brought us into God's family.  Now Jews and Gentiles are in the same category and the separation between the two is gone in God's eyes.  Christ offered this peace to Jews and to Gentiles and became a cornerstone to connect all believers together in one single structure.

 

    Chapter 3:  Revelation of God's Mystery

Paul states what His ministry is:  to reveal that God's plan has always been to bring all men into His family, and Paul's life is to further that.  Paul explains that he has been going through hard times because he gets to, at the same time, live out his purpose.  His challenge is for us to follow this example. 

        verse 1-2- Because we're in the same family, Paul is in charge of sharing with the Gentiles God's grace.

        verse 3-5- Paul now knows God's plan, but this plan was a mystery all the way up until now.  Now God has made it known.

        verse 6- The Mystery (drum roll...)
            Gentiles are fellow heirs, members and partakers of God's promise.
 

        verse 7-12- God is working in Paul to show the Gentiles this new revelation.  This was always God's plan with Christ, and Paul gets to be a big part of it.
 

        verse 13-21- What God's plan is for us NOW.  Don't loose heart because of the bad, the good is SO good.  Just focus on God's plan:
            -be strengthened
            -together know the love of God, which is beyond knowledge
            -be filled up to the "completion" of God  (in Him we are complete)
            -these entirely for God's glory

       

Topic Two:  The Conduct of a Believer (5 Walks)
   
We were told the "perks" of following Christ, now we'll look at some of the responsibilities associated with this great privilege.  The next topic will is delivered to us in five different walks that need to practice, and then talk about relationships.

 

    Chapter 4:

        verse 1-16- Walk in a manor worthy of the calling (1st walk)
          
 In this walk, we first hear the instructions before we then hear what we're trying to do with those instructions.  Paul wrote the how before the what, then follows that with the result.

           
car keys illustration-  Parent gives the car keys to a teenager and allows them to enjoy it but parent doesn't want their child or someone else hurt, their car wrecked or a law violated, so they would set rules for the teenager to drive worthy of the blessing.
            So we don't hurt ourselves, each other, the vehicles we're in as Christians or violate the law of God's character (which is love), we need to walk in a manor worthy of this blessing of following Him.  Here's what we need to have:  ("Here's what we need in preparation for what we're about to hear that we need to do")
            -humility
            -gentleness
            -patience
            -a bearing with each other in love
            -a diligence to preserve unity
           
            Everything God is doing is unified as one, but He sends separate parts out to accomplish that goal of being unified in Him.  Living worthy is living to build unity, something we don't do much of.  He gave some as:
            -apostles  (those who get things started and cast vision of the gospel)
            -prophets (one who speaks by inspiration)
            -evangelists (preacher of the gospel through relationship)
            -pastors and teachers (one's who exhort AND teach, not one or the other)

            The result is a strong body that can resist false doctrine, which is really just trickery from man's scheming.  Back to Chapter 3, we need to be excited with our role in Christ's plan and run with it so we can press through discouraging factors.


        verse 17-32- Walk no longer as the world  (2nd Walk)
           
You can simplify this walk down to a list of natural properties of a fallen human lifestyle that we should, as followers of Christ, work to avoid.  So it starts out with the tone: "these following things the other gentiles do, don't do them:"

        17:  don't have a mind that's reaching for nothing
        18:  don't ignore God and refuse letting Him speak to your heart 
                (This leads to darkened understanding and exclusion from real life)
        19:  no guiltless greediness for enjoying filth
        
        instead...

        22:  lay aside the old self, which is corrupted by deceitful lusts
        23:  have a new mind-set
      
         24:  be the new self, which has been made to be pure, set-apart and set in truth
                    ...since we were made to be pure, set-apart and set in truth...
             25:  speak truth

        26:  quotes Psalm 4:4
                    Psalm 4:2-4 is David looking at the world's vanity, being angry at that, and meditating in bed to be still.  Be stirred by the world's deception, but don't be an angry person.   "Hate the sin, love the sinner" by separating the two in meditation when you can be still.  Paul says, don't pass up that time when you can work on that.
                27:  ...because that would give the devil a chance to work.
       
        (Paul applies what is harmful to the other extreme, to make it useful)

        28:  don't steal, but create a blessing to share.
        29:  speak nothing rotten, but speak the needed edification (building of a structure)
       
        30: Don't have the following because they sadden the Holy Spirit, who is our wonderful inheritance.
       
                31:   -bitterness  (separating mindset)
                        -wrath (ferocious personality)
                        -anger (violent passion)
                        -clamor (outcry in grief... i.e. negative groaning)
                        -slander (evil/rebellious speaking)
                        -malice (naughtiness)
                      
        32:  be kind (useful), tender-hearted (compassionate) and forgiving, because we're following The Example (Christ Jesus).

       

    Chapter 5:

        verse 1-7- Walk in Love (3rd Walk)
       

            2: Easy way to remember to walk in Love is to meditate on Christ's love for us personally.

            3: These have no place among us:
                    immortality- spiritual or physical adultery/idolatry
                    impurity- being morally dirty as the result of something dirty
                    greed- wanting something you don't own, followed by an evil act to get it.

                -A saint isn't a saint if these are a part of them.
                -All of these have the underlining of cheating another for selfish gain.

            4:  there must be no:
                    filthiness- just that
                    silly talk- foolish talk that's so ridiculous it moves people away from edification
                    Coarse jesting- abusive reflections that expose another and make them look ridiculous
                   
                   - Instead of filling your mind with profane wit, be delighted by God's goodness.

            5: Nobody caught up in any kind of adultery (physical/spiritual) has an inheritance.

                If I cheated on my wife, she may or may not leave me, but the things I would have otherwise inherited would now be gone.  It works the same way in the spiritual realm.


            6: Do not accept empty words. 
                    -Empty words attempt to flatter and manipulate
                    -Satan was the first one to use this trick on mankind
                    -We walk into punishment when we allow words that sound encouraging, which are really evil.
            7:  Don't accept flattery, don't use flattery.
   
                    -People like to hear how good they are.  It's wrong to use that to your advantage and God punishes for doing so.
 

 

           verse 8-14- Walk as Children of Light (4th Walk)
                                   
Paul drives some good points for living with light, which is aiming to please our Master: we gain what gives benefit, meaning and truth to our lives.  As the light of Christ shines, the darkness around us becomes light.  Pleasing God will have this result:  that's walking with light.

               
                8:  Because you have been changed, walk as changed (walk with light)

                9:  Light produces everything that's in what's good, what's right by God and what's the truth.
                       
                        
      -goodness: beneficence (gives benefit)
                               - righteousness: justification (gives meaning)
                               -truth: God's sight (understanding)

                        In other words:  Light produces what gives us benefit, what gives us meaning and what show's us how things really are.

                 10:  walking with the light is aiming to please the Lord

                  11:  Don't participate in empty darkness, go as far as to expose them.
                  12:  We shouldn't even focus on those things in order to expose them, instead...
                  13:  Live a life of contrasting light, which will expose it.  Everything visible is light.

                            You can't make a cave bright by going in without a light.  Shine the light to make it bright.  Everywhere in the world is that dark cave.  Make sure you're shining, or you're simply participating in darkness.

                  14:  Christ is what gives that light.

                            -Not sharing ourselves, our plans, our lives alone, but the light of Christ through all we are.

       
        verse 15-21- Walk as Wise (5th Walk)
               
    Wisdom is understanding cause and effect.  This walk is all about realizing the results of a walk, and applying that knowledge to the current walk.

             
       15:  since we are light, live NOT as unwise, but as wise
                     16:  How?  (rescue from loss/redeem/ make the most of) your time, because the days are evil.
                     17:  consider and understand the Lord's (will/ desire/ pleasure) so you're not foolish.

                          Sum-up:  Live using wisdom by making good use of your time to please the Lord.
                                                   ^ how ^                 ^ what ^                                    ^ result ^

                    18:  don't be filled with drunkenness, which is (excess/ rot)
                                 -being filled with other obsessions (media, possessions, money...) is also going too far.
                            instead, be filled with the Spirit
                    19:  the result = speaking to another in...   
                                psalms: set piece of music with voice and music
                                hymns: religious ode
                                spiritual song:  words sung
                           (in other words)-singing and making melody from your thoughts and feelings towards the Lord
                    20:  always give thanks, and give God the credit for what you're thankful for
                    21:  have guiding relationships with each other, in fear of Christ.

                            Sum-up:  Be filled with the Spirit, instead of fleshy pleasures so your attitude can be right.
                                                ^ how ^                                                                        ^what^
                                 -reflected in songs and thankfulness towards the lord and subjective relationships with others.
                                                    ^ result ^
 

 

        verse 22-33- The Romantic Relationship
                       
This section reveals God's plan for marriage, in design and function.  Using a relationship with Christ and the Church vs. Man and Woman, we can gain a better concept for how both relationships work.  There is a loved side of the relationship in both, and a respected side of the relationship in both.  This should be the constant model to make both relationships perfect.

                      God intentionally made marital relationships an important one so we understand how much more important the relationship between us all and Him are.  And by the way, an earthly romance won't fill the void.  There's still a constant loneliness without Christ.

                    22-24:  Wives be subject to husbands as the head as the church is subject to Christ.
                            -The first 3 verses are "Wives submit to the husband as he leads like this..."

                    25: Husbands love your wives as Christ loves the church

                    26-27: How/Why Christ loves the church
                            -sanctify by cleansing with washing of the word (the truth)
                            -for a glorious and beautiful bride
                       
                            Husband:  lead the marriage with truth to enable the wife to be glorious and beautiful
                 
                    28-30:  Your wife is yourself.  Nourish and cherish her like Christ does for His church.
       
                    31:  We leave our parents behind to be devoted to her.
                    32:  Christ left His father in Heaven to be be devoted to us.

                    33:  The wife needs love.  The husband needs respect.
                                -there are two distinct roles.
                                -there are two distinct needs.


Chapter 6

     verse 1-10 The Family Relationship


Paul talks about relating to those you're bound to beyond an outward act. How do we treat our Parents, our Children, those above us and those below us? Are we putting on an act to please, or are we relating to others as a result of how we relate to the Lord

-As children:

        1- Children obey parents
        2- Honor your Father and Mother (the 1st commandment w/ a promise)
        3- The promise= Peace in family; resulting a long life

                When we honor our Parents, we receive a promise from within the Ten Commandments, that we will live longer.


        -As Fathers:

        4- Do not provoke your children to anger, but raise them with discipline and instruction of the Lord

                The natural tendency of a parent and a growing child is for frustration. We're told to resist this natural tendency by applying both discipline and the instruction of the Lord (the Law) to the raising of children.



-As Slaves:

        5- Be obedient to masters with honor, as to Christ
        6- Don't be a fake, man pleaser, but an actual slave of Christ.
        7- Have a good attitude, as to the Lord, not to men

                Paul spends the most time on the two "beneath" relationships, because they're the most difficult. When we shift our attitude from any master, to the true master, who we know that loves us and asks us to serve our masters out of love for Him, it becomes much easier to be "beneath" another who is beneath the true master.


-As Anyone:

        8- Whatever good thing each one does, this he will receive back from the Lord.

                So we should all do as it says in verse 7: Have a good attitude unto the Lord, not unto men. When we do good for God, he does good for us.


-As Masters:

        9- Please God in relationships. Give up threatening. The only true master is above all and He's not partial (a respecter of persons).

                God holds no person as higher or lower than any other, so if we have a false and proud perception of ourselves, we deserve some humbling.

 

The last section was finished, but misplaced.  I'll add it when I take the time to look for the writing on the "Armor of God".